Your cat is way more passive aggressive than you think, and it’s not just in your head.

One second they’re cuddled up like a loaf on your blanket, the next they’re ghosting you like you canceled brunch without notice. Cats don’t explode with rage. They smolder. And they show it in weird, sneaky, blink-and-you’ll-miss-it ways that make you feel like the villain in a breakup montage. If your cat’s been acting just a little off lately, here are 10 quiet ways they might be holding a grudge.